It's not you, it's me...

It's not you, it's me. What does that really mean? Is it a scape gate? Or is it some truth behind it? When someone says this to you, how are you suppose to feel? You put your all into something, thinking and feeling that your building a foundation with someone only for you to find out that the feelings aren't reciprocated on the other end. Its not you = it really is. All the questions start to roll through you head and begins to make you wonder. Is that why you act like that? Is that why you treat me like that? Or are you a coward? It's me = I'm not ready. I'm not ready to be the person I know I am capable of being. I'm not willing to change my selfish ways. I need a cop-out because I can't commit. When it is all said in done, someone will always get hurt and left wondering why. When they say it's not you, it's me, they never really give an explanation, just things they think we want and need to hear. Sometimes though, just sometimes, the truth will always be better. Giving you a little bit of me, but also sharing what i call truth. I say it but you think it...